The mama (maternal uncle) in the family holds an important role in wedding rituals. He is entrusted with the well-being of both the bride and the groom. He may actively participate in various wedding rituals and ceremonies, offering assistance and guidance to ensure smooth proceedings and adherence.
In Hindu weddings, it is customary to decorate the entrance of the marriage hall and the houses of the bridegroom and bride with two banana trees. According to tradition, the banana tree symbolizes that the married life of the couple will be evergreen, signifying enduring relationships and love between them.
Surrounded by female family members, the groom undergoes a shaving ceremony. Beyond its grooming purpose, this ritual harkens back to a time when marriages involved much younger couples. In earlier days, marriages often occurred at the onset of puberty, and a boy’s first shave marked his transition from boyhood to manhood.
In Hindu culture, turmeric is considered auspicious and is believed to have purifying properties. Applying turmeric paste to the bride's skin is believed to cleanse her body of impurities, preparing her for the sacred union of marriage.
During the haldi (turmeric) ceremony, elders bless the bride and groom with betel leaves, which are considered auspicious and often used in religious ceremonies. Betel leaves symbolize prosperity, good luck, and divine blessings.
During the haldi (turmeric) ceremony, the mami (wife of maternal uncle) and other close relatives assist the bride and groom in performing pheras or saptapadi (ritual of circumambulation around a sacred object). They carry a kalash (pot) containing coconut and mango leaves in their hands.
The women gather in the backyard to prepare food for all the guests, fostering a sense of unity and camaraderie among the community as they prepare to welcome the new members into their fold.
Every member of the family, including children, participates in the ceremony. They take turns applying turmeric and offer blessings to the couple for a successful married life, accompanied by singing traditional songs.